Perfectionism costs your team.
Perfectionism costs your team.
I am coaching a brilliant manager whose goal is to ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐น๐ผ๐ฎ๐ฑ with her team. She has a record of success, yet sheโs stuck in a familiar loop:
โ โIf I donโt solve it, it wonโt be perfect.โ
So she rewrites every slide, polishes every number. At the same time, she worries how to keep her team interested and engaged. Meanwhile, her people stand at the bottom of the staircase, watching her sprint up and down alone.
โ ๐ฃ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ถ๐๐บ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฒ๐
๐ต๐ฎ๐๐๐๐ถ๐ป๐ดโ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐บ.
Let me be honest here. As her executive coach, I see a past version of myself in her story. I remember late nights fixing colleaguesโ drafts, convinced only I could get it right. The work shipped, but no one else felt true ownership.
After a couple of sessions reflecting on her journey, she asked me:
โWhat if my perfect solution is the very thing blocking their first step?โ
Itโs like gripping the stair rail so tightly that no one else can place a hand on it. Once she noticed her white knuckles, she can finally let go and invite others upward.
The rewards?
โข A team that owns the work, crafts richer solutions, and climbs the stairs beside her.
Have you seen this happen on a team?
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22.05.2025 08:38